Im in love with my boyfriend who i believe to be narcissistic. He is disliked by all of my friends and ive been told im a mug to be with him. He suffers from all the traits and some. Yet there is a ridiculous bond/attraction and fondness between us!? I could write a novel on his behaviours but the sake of speed i will list them
*Computer programmer – hacked my computer and posted private FB messages on my page
*OCD with cleanness to the extreme.
*Obsessed with social networking sites (has an ulterego persona)
*Obsessed with social status and material possessions
*Obsessed with his looks
*No compassion towards his family
*Extreamly organised – files, sub files, and then sub files those files
*Obsessed with porn
*Tries to control every aspect of his life
*Sleeps happily 10-16 hours a day
So i ask myself, why am i in love with someone that displays all these traits? Im strong minded, independant, attractive and pretty much the polar opposite of all of them? My friends have distanced themselves from me becasue they dislike him so and im still involved.
Ive read about NCP for a while now and im convinced he has it. He found this out when going through my FB messages and so now he knows i know it too! …..its a real pickle of a situation and i feel very isolated! Help?